Who would you Haunt? 👻

Grudges are good, actually

A lot of people have told me to let go of grudges

I deeply disagree

Love & Fury are fuels, as Jony Ive would say

Loving humanity & hating humans is a totally coherent world view

You can feel a deep appreciation for the species

AND

A deep derision for individuals who wrong you

BUT

You must choose your enemies carefully

I think a good test is this:

Who would you haunt?

If you died today, who would you torment *tonight*

If the answer is nobody, you have lived a peaceful (and probably dull) life

If the answer fills a page, you have lived a brutal (and probably evil) life

If the answer is a few individuals of repute, you have lived a powerful (and probably interesting) life

So, think carefully about your enemies, if you would haunt them

If not, let them go

Like ghosts in the fog